Every nationality has its own characteristics. This does not prevent a huge number of Russian girls and Turkish men from finding each other, falling in love, starting families and raising bilingual children.
But a mixed marriage is often an extra reason for conflicts, most often associated with a misunderstanding of culture, traditions and language. Let's try to understand Turkish men, especially since February 14 is an excellent occasion to talk about love and relationships.
Family comes first
Turks are very attached to their family, they are ready to take care and provide, which makes them enviable candidates for the role of husbands. But there is also another side to the coin. Firstly, for a Turk his family, relatives, even not very close ones, are of great importance, so joint holidays and the arrival of guests can resemble the Tatar-Mongol invasion. Secondly, the influence of parents on their son’s personal life can be so great that if a Turkish mother does not approve of the bride, especially a foreigner, serious relationship you can forget. And it doesn’t matter how old the son is - 20 or 40. True, this is usually typical for more religious families.
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Patriotism
“Ne mutlu turküm diyene!” (“What a blessing it is to call yourself a Turk!”). This succinct phrase said by Ataturk unites all the love and pride of any Turk for his country and nation. The Turkish flag, the portrait of Ataturk and other symbols of the Turkish Republic are sacred. And if you decide to connect your life with a Turk, you will also need to accept his homeland. With all the pros and cons, although there are obviously more of the latter.
Conservatism
Turks are principled in their passions. They are sensitive to change and innovation. This manifests itself in both business and personal life. It is very difficult to get a Turk to try a new suspicious dish, like sushi or herring under a fur coat. But for some reason, almost every second Turk loves borscht. If you want to win the heart of a Turkish man, learn how to cook borscht.
Emotionality
Many note that Turkish men, despite their courageous appearance, are quite vulnerable, sensitive, romantic, passionate and childishly touchy. A Turk is unlikely to object to watching a good melodrama. But their emotions can change as dramatically as the weather in the south in winter, and this can often take them by surprise. So a sunny hot day abruptly gives way to a cold wind and a night thunderstorm. Turks easily give compliments, confess their love, ask for marriage, promise stars and the moon from the sky, but just as quickly they can change their minds and disappear into oblivion.
Polygamy
Perhaps, deep down, every Turk, more than any other man, considers himself Sultan Suleiman and dreams of a harem. They can often be caught red-handed, both in real and virtual life. Turks, even married ones, are active users of dating sites and social networks, are able to work on two or even three “fronts”, without experiencing the slightest remorse. But God forbid if someone starts flirting with his chosen one.
Jealousy
Turkish men are often so jealous that they can forbid their girlfriend or wife to work, monitor the chastity of their clothes, control calls and correspondence, and do not allow them to go somewhere without him or return home late. But the phrase “Benim eşim türk” (“My husband is a Turk”) acts like a magic spell on pestering pick-up artists who want to meet each other.
Practicality
Rarely does a Turk understand without explanation why a girl needs to give flowers when there is already beauty all around. The exception is perhaps Valentine's Day (Sevgililer günü). And even then it may not be a stylish bouquet, but indoor plant. Turks are practical guys, so things that are useful in the household can also be given as a gift. But not a single Turk will allow a woman to pay for himself in a cafe or restaurant. It's a matter of honor.
Love for cleanliness
Despite popular stereotypes, Turks are particularly clean. Religion also leaves its mark. This can reach the point of disgust, and Turks will not eat in a cafe where there is dirt in the kitchen and on the tables. Perfect cleanliness should reign in a Turkish home. True, this responsibility falls mainly on the shoulders of the wife, the keeper of the hearth.
Football
Turks love football very much, and the division into fans of one club or another is quite strict. And if your Turkish partner is a fan of Besiktas, don’t even think about saying that you like Fenerbahce much more than the players in black and white stripes. Turks love to watch football with friends in a bar. They react to every goal with their usual emotionality.
Public opinion
Judgment from neighbors, friends, family, colleagues, passersby, accompanied by clicking of the tongue, shaking of the head, gossip and gossip is a phenomenon that Turks prefer to avoid. They try to support everyone a good relationship, believing that “a bad peace is better than a good quarrel.” It is also not very common among Turks to openly show their feelings in public, so you can only see couples openly kissing in big cities or at the height of the season at resorts or nightclubs.
Turkish language
Many Turks easily speak various foreign languages, including Russian, but still their native Turkish language is closer to them, and for many Turkish words and expressions it is simply difficult to find analogues. So knowing Turkish is a big advantage in the eyes of a Turkish man.
Treat yourself or your loved one! In honor of Valentine's Day Courses Turkish language"Dialogue" is given 14% discount on online course "Effective Turkish" ()!
You can forward the link to your Turkish boyfriend or husband - this will be a great hint for a practical gift. And you will improve your language, and you will please the Turkish man by declaring the seriousness of your intentions to finally learn his native language.
VOCABULARY:
Aşk (“ashk”) - love
Aile (“aile”) – family
Sevgililer günü (“Sevgeliler günü”) – Valentine’s Day
Eş (“ash”) – spouse
Temiz (“temiz”) – pure
Kıskançlık (“kyskanchlyk”) – jealousy
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I don’t understand what’s going on at all... I’m going crazy... I’m corresponding with a Turk... Initially I asked about my status - did I have a man. Yes, I’m married, I said so, and I said that I’m not going to move. Moreover, he is older than him. he is 47 years old. I'm 53. I thought. that will disappear. He didn’t disappear... he even called me to go on vacation... I would go... but in order to get away from my husband, you need to carefully prepare everything. (I don’t have a good relationship with my husband... but they give me security in all respects) There was little time to prepare the ground, and I didn’t go. He disappeared. I breathed a sigh of relief... Then it showed up again. How are you? You didn't say Yes, so I went alone. sent me a photo from my vacation. Overall pleasant conversations. Every day he sends cards with roses. She says how beautiful... It’s nice... I accepted the compliments, . but didn’t attach any importance to them - let him talk. Further and more... And he wants to love me and all that... These words made my mind go crazy... He says he’s divorced. He works as a lawyer... Who knows what he does...? Maybe he’s grazing mullahs in some village... I asked several times to go on Skype to talk live... he remains silent... ..doesn’t come out... I asked what city are you from? - doesn’t answer! This is alarming.... I told him, since you want me. Come. He asks - are you inviting me? What he means is probably for me to place him in my apartment... but I don’t live alone! She said I can’t! Silent. I offered him to live in a hostel. and meet at my place. He seemed happy. he is still silent about the arrival. I have a feeling. that will fall out of the blue. at just such a moment. when I can’t pay attention to him, you never know, there’s an influx of work, etc. And he’ll announce his arrival 24 hours in advance. And even the point is different - well, he’ll come... we’ll meet. everything will be fine - love story... so at least I’ll see, I’ll look. what kind of fruit is this... and is it worth having anything to do with it... well, okay. Let's get to know each other... suppose. liked each other... what next...? We'll shed tears and we'll be separated again. then perhaps he will invite me to Turkey.... I have a feeling that he has already, even without seeing me in person. without knowing, he considers him his woman... and he says you will be mine forever... This “forever” bothers me... I ask him a specific question - he writes back how much he loves me and wants me... It’s nice. What can I say... And my brains, meanwhile, are melting... Although common sense says, this Turkey has given up to me... I can lose everything - the main thing is that I won’t see my daughter and grandchildren. there will be no theater classes and much more. And what will I gain, besides a headache... it’s unclear. I can’t understand what he needs... maybe he’s married and wants entertainment - so it will be even easier for me in this case. Elsi is not married and wants a “serious relationship”, this is already a big stress for me... What will I do in a foreign country - a different mentality. other culture. everything is different... but I’m already stuck with my feelings and I don’t understand who I’m dealing with... He’s behaving strangely... he’s not embarrassed by his age. neither my married status... nor answers the questions. He just talks about love and it blows my mind...
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Olga, hello.
The big disadvantage is that your education is not completed; in any case, you need to figure out a way to get it. Maybe transfer for a point, or live with your loved one in Russia. As for what I encountered or not, this is an individual question. Ask your loved one openly, without fear, what awaits you. From clothes, starting and ending, whether you work or always stay at home.
Turkish men are generally good, the fact that he will control you, call you constantly, ask everything in detail, perceive this as caring about you... and not that he wants to deprive you of your freedom. There are many Russians in Antalya, very many... there is a great opportunity to realize oneself, to find friends. Izmir, Istanbul too good options for the life of a Russian girl. But to be honest, I personally would not go to live in other places in Turkey in my life. If a man loves you, he must create favorable conditions for you; under no circumstances agree to live with your parents in a small town. It will be very difficult for you; you will run back to your mother in half a year. And if the goal is to be together, start learning Turkish intensively, you will simply need it like air
Good luck to you.
Thank you very much for your answer. Unfortunately, with my education everything is not so simple. I will be able to transfer to part-time in at least (!) in a year, but to live in Russia my beloved needs a job. He had already called all possible Turkish companies in Moscow (I didn’t even know they existed), and at the moment all the places with his specialty were occupied. Moreover, in Turkey they offer him a lucrative contract for six months, he sees no other job options... And this means that I won’t see him for at least another six months.
All his brothers contact me and say that his beloved is in a terribly depressed state. All these long-distance relationships affect him especially noticeably, because he takes on any job to provide for his future family. We talked about clothes and work - all his conditions were acceptable to me. Speaking about Turkish traditions, I meant such a tradition as, for example, kissing his mother’s hand when meeting. Regarding this, I’m not very comfortable talking to him, maybe you can tell me?
Anita, why do you say it's not worth living with his family? They have very big house in where some of them live cousins with our families, and as far as I understand, for the first years we will live this way. He lives in Istanbul, in this regard I am lucky. The goal has been set, but there are so many various obstacles on the way to it that, out of helplessness, you begin to look for answers on forums strangers. Thank you for your support and understanding. Waiting for an answer.
Olga
Olechka, this is what I’m writing to you about...how can it be inconvenient to know if you decide to connect your life with a man from another country and mentality, ask him everything. So that there won't be a lot of tears and disappointment later. I don’t kiss my hand, because it’s not important in my husband’s family, and plus I said that I won’t do it. because my family...for example, my grandmother, if she sees this ritual, she will faint, and will think that I am being tortured and humiliated. I told my husband if you don’t want to be an enemy for my family, you need to make compromises. Why is it bad to live with your parents, first of all, you listen to their gibberish for days, it’s not customary for them to sit in their rooms... everyone goes into a large room and starts... half a day of cleaning, half a day of drinking tea together. Secondly, don’t relax, don’t dress the way you want, don’t sit down the way you want, don’t cook what you want... Thirdly, with love, it’s not even normal time to put your ears everywhere. Fourthly, most likely they will make fun of you... Russian gel, etc. The mentality is completely different in everyday life, it will be very difficult for you. Plus you are without friends, without family... you will definitely have breakdowns, tears and depression. Believe me, there is the same picture before your eyes, millions of girls are running away from such a life when the euphoria of falling in love subsides. Well, dropping out of college is very dangerous. You may live together for a couple of years and then run away, and you have zero behind you. I wouldn’t risk it, we can fly each other for a year…there are a lot of such examples by the way. My closest friend flew for three years, her husband was waiting for her to graduate from college. If there is love, it will not go anywhere, but you need to respect yourself and achieve your goals.
I think maybe I’m writing something rude, but it’s the honest truth. Everything is wonderful that you have feelings... but everyday life will eat everything up. Don't be discouraged, figure everything out. Think everything over with a cool head.
There is no arguing about tastes and colors. Turkish proverb
Türkiye, like a patchwork quilt, is bright and multifaceted. Over thousands of years, the culture of this country has absorbed the customs of many peoples of the Mediterranean, Middle East, Caucasus, Eastern Europe and Central Asia.
Modern Türkiye is a tolerant state where guests are welcome. But, like any other people, the Turks are pleased when visitors know their traditions. If they see that you observe local etiquette, rest assured that the Turks will show you the utmost respect and reverence.
Peace in the country, peace in the world
Türkiye is a Muslim country. 96% of the population professes Islam. However, Türkiye is the first Muslim country where religion is separated from the state.
However, it is worth remembering that Islam has a huge influence on culture and daily life local residents. Many rules of etiquette are dictated by the peculiarities of this religion.
If in large cities there are a lot of progressive, Europeanized youth (girls do not wear headscarves, couples can walk hand in hand, etc.), then in the Turkish outback morals are much stricter.
Turks are sensitive to their history. And the main figure in its modern segment is Mustafa Ataturk.
He made Turkey what it is now, and the Turks are grateful to him for that. To say that Ataturk is revered would be an understatement. To speak negatively about this political leader is to disrespect the Turkish people.
There are also two topics that it is better not to touch upon when communicating with Turks - the Kurds and Cyprus. In addition, you should not call Istanbul Constantinople and confuse the capital of the state (the main city of Turkey now is Ankara).
Taaagil!
When arriving at a Turkish resort, we rarely bother to learn the local greeting and farewell phrases. But in vain! Turks are very pleased when they hear “Merhaba” from a foreigner.
“Merhaba” (“merhaba” (sometimes the “h” is not pronounced)) is a common greeting, translated as “Hello!”
You can also often hear “Selam” (“selam”), which means “Hello!” and is used in informal settings.
When leaving, they say “Iyi günler” (“Iyi gunler”), which literally translates as “Good afternoon!”, but when saying goodbye it means “All the best!” You can also say goodbye by saying:
- Güle güle (“güle güle”) - Goodbye (say those who remain).
- Hoşça kal (“hoshcha kal”) – Stay happily (says the one leaving).
- Goruüşürüz (“gerüşürüz”) - See you.
As for non-verbal communication, men (!), if they are close friends or relatives, can hug and kiss each other on the cheek when they meet. Strangers greet each other with handshakes (they always give their right hand).
If during a meeting a woman offers her hand for a handshake, it looks strange. Because of this, tourists often get into trouble. For a Turk, sometimes this gesture means that the woman is ready to get to know each other very closely.
Turkish etiquette strictly regulates relations between people of different generations. Turks revere old people. When addressing elders (if they are not relatives or close friends), it is customary to add a respectful suffix to the name - “bey” (“lord”) or “hanim” (“madam”).
Relatives of the older generation are greeted by kissing the hand (the back of the hand) and applying it to the forehead.
To the question “How are you?” (“Nasılsiniz” - “Nasylsynyz”) most often answer positively - it is not customary to complain about one’s worries.
But you should definitely use “magic” words:
- Teşekkürler (“mother-in-law”) or teşekkür ederim (“teshekkür ederim”) - thank you.
- Lütfen (“Lyutfen”) - please (request).
- Bir şey değil (“Bir schey deil”) - please (gratitude).
Sign language
Turks use body language that is unusual for Europeans. When coming to this country, be careful with the gestures that are familiar to you - for local residents they may have a different meaning.
So, turning your head left and right (our “no” gesture) does not mean denial at all. Most often, this is how Turks show misunderstanding - “I don’t know what you’re talking about.”
A single nod of the head, like ours, means “Yes,” but the same gesture, accompanied by a click of the tongue, is a firm “No.” In general, clicking your tongue in Turkish culture is a sign of denial or disapproval of something.
Finger snapping, on the other hand, demonstrates a positive attitude. At the same time, it is impossible to replace this gesture with the familiar thumbs up - in Turkey this gesture is considered ugly.
To politely refuse an offer or thank someone for a favor in body language, you should place your hand on your chest.
On the street
The rules of behavior on the streets of Turkish cities and villages are dictated mainly by Islam. The more provincial the area, the stricter the morals and the more careful one should behave in public places.
There is no dress code as such, but remember:
You must not approach mosques and other religious sites wearing shorts, short skirts, sweatshirts or open-shoulder dresses.
Many tourists believe that beach fashion(swimsuits, pareos) can be carried to city streets. This is wrong. Promenade in a swimsuit or only shorts (without a top) looks strange, to say the least.
As for behavior on the beach, it is again worth remembering that the majority of Turks are Muslims. Topless sunbathing is not prohibited in many hotels. But still, by local standards it is vulgar.
If, while walking around the city, you suddenly want to take a photograph of a Turkish man, you should ask his permission; but photographing Turkish women (especially if they wear a headscarf) is not at all recommended.
Islam also leaves its mark on attitudes towards alcohol. A foreigner can buy alcohol in a store (the shelves with it are closed only during Ramadan), but they should not drink it in a public place. Also, Turks rarely eat on the go.
By the way, during the Muslim holy month of Ramadan, when believers abstain from food, water and smoking from sunrise to sunset, you should not eat or smoke in their presence. This will be your sign of respect that will not go unnoticed.
In transport
In large Turkish cities (Istanbul, Ankara) to pay for travel in the state public transport use special electronic cards.
If you run out of money on it, don't worry - the locals are very helpful. They often help visitors by paying for their travel with their card.
At the same time, it is unlikely that you will be able to thank them in return in cash - they won’t take it. If the Turks help, it is from the heart.
For a European, the Turkish transport system can seem like hell. (We are talking about large cities.) Drivers practically do not use turn signals - be careful! But they love to sound their horns. This is a way of “communication”. If in our country they honk to warn of danger, then in Turkey - for any reason (the green light does not light up for a long time, an acquaintance has passed by, someone is driving too slowly in front, etc., etc.).
When boarding the metro or tram there is a real crush. The fact is that the Turks do not wait for the arrivals to get out of the carriage, they simply climb forward, pushing everyone away.
On a bus or dolmuş (Turkish minibuses), if you have a choice of seats, do not sit next to an unknown woman if you are a man. This is not accepted. Girls, on the contrary, are better off choosing a seat next to the girls.
Away
Hospitality (misafirperverlik) – important element Turkish culture. Especially in the provinces. The guest is always offered the best, regardless of the family’s income.
It is difficult to refuse an invitation to visit (and it is better not to do this) - it is always surrounded by a number of elegant excuses. If you really cannot accept it, then it is better to say that you are busy - the Turks will understand this reason.
As for gifts for the owners of the house, there is a saying in Turkey: “If you ate sweetly, you talked sweetly.” It can be taken literally - bring sweets as a gift. A souvenir from your country will also be an excellent present.
Did you see a pile of shoes in the entrance or in front of the house? Do not be surprised! This is a sure sign that Turks live here. In Turkey, it is not customary to take off your shoes in the house (Turkish housewives monitor cleanliness); shoes are left outside the doorstep.
You will be offered slippers inside. In Turkish families, as a rule, there are special ones - “guests”. Don't like walking in other people's slippers? Bring your own. In Turkey, this act will be absolutely normal.
Turkish houses are usually divided into guest and private areas. Don't try to look behind closed doors or ask for a tour of the house - it's rude.
Also, in some conservative families it is not customary to start eating without the permission of an elder and even to smoke without his approval. By the way, many Turks smoke.
A visit is unlikely to last less than two hours. You will not only be given tea or coffee, but also deliciously fed. But it is not recommended to stay late.
At the table
It is worth distinguishing between a home meal and a meal in a restaurant.
In the first case, traditional Turkish lunch, as a rule, takes place in the presence of all family members. They eat at a low table, sitting cross-legged on the floor on pillows or mats. Feet are hidden under the table.
Dishes (usually three or more) are placed on a large tray and served on the table. From this tray you can put food on your plate (with your hands or with a shared spoon). But you need to do this only with your right hand and under no circumstances choose a better piece. This is the height of disrespect for the owners of the house.
On holidays, the national aniseed vodka raki (aka raki, aka rakia) is often placed on the table. After making a toast, clink only the bottoms of the glasses, and when placing the glass on the table, you need to think about those who could not be present with you.
At the table it is considered uncivil to talk without the permission of an elder, as well as to open your mouth wide (for example, to use a toothpick).
If you are offered to try some dish (the hostess’s signature dolma), you should not refuse, even if you are not hungry. Otherwise, you can offend the owners, and the questions “Isn’t it tasty?”, “Don’t you like it?” - cannot be avoided. You don't have to finish eating it, but you should try it.
As for lunch in a restaurant, here, most often, you can find a European style - ordinary tables, chairs, serving.
Turks, like us, love tea. It is drunk many times a day. This is done from special pear-shaped glass glasses without a handle. This shape allows you to keep the drink hot longer and admire its beautiful rich color.
Turks probably only like sweets more than tea. They eat sweets whenever they want: before lunch, after lunch, before tea, after tea. But never with tea. If you start eating, for example, Turkish delight as a snack with tea, they will look at you askance. Also, don't order tea at the same time as your main course (instead of soda to wash down your meal).
In cafes and other establishments it is customary to leave a tip.
Business Etiquette
Turkish business culture is dual: on the one hand, Turks try to do everything in a European way (business suits, business cards, handshakes), on the other hand, they cannot distance themselves from their roots.
Personal relationships play an important role in communicating with business partners. It is customary to strengthen them during negotiations, which are often informal.
Lunch or dinner is always paid by the host. You should not ask the size of the bill, or disclose it to your Turkish guests - this is a violation of etiquette.
Turkish businessmen are not always distinguished by German punctuality and straightforwardness. If possible, avoid strict deadlines and do not say categorically “No”. In Turkey, a polite refusal is a soft refusal.
At the beginning of a business meeting, it is customary to make compliments (for example, to the country, culture or company) and give souvenirs. During negotiations, Turkish partners can easily be distracted by their phones. Don't take it personally - this is just one of the features of Turkish.
In general, Turks are emphatically polite in business and expect this in return.
Bilmemek ayıp değil, sormamak öğrenmemek ayıp (It is shameful not to know - it is shameful not to learn. Turkish proverb)
Now you know how to behave in Turkey. Anything to add? Welcome to the comments.
Every nationality has its own characteristics. This does not prevent a huge number of Russian girls and Turkish men from finding each other, falling in love, starting families and raising bilingual children.
But a mixed marriage is often an extra reason for conflicts, most often associated with a misunderstanding of culture, traditions and language. Let's try to understand Turkish men, especially since February 14 is an excellent occasion to talk about love and relationships.
Family comes first
Turks are very attached to their family, they are ready to take care and provide, which makes them enviable candidates for the role of husbands. But there is also another side to the coin. Firstly, for a Turk his family and relatives, even not very close ones, are of great importance, so joint holidays and the arrival of guests can resemble the Tatar-Mongol invasion. Secondly, the influence of parents on their son’s personal life can be so great that if the Turkish mother does not approve of the bride, especially a foreigner, you can forget about a serious relationship. And it doesn’t matter how old the son is - 20 or 40. True, this is usually typical for more religious families.
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Patriotism
“Ne mutlu turküm diyene!” (“What a blessing it is to call yourself a Turk!”). This succinct phrase said by Ataturk unites all the love and pride of any Turk for his country and nation. The Turkish flag, the portrait of Ataturk and other symbols of the Turkish Republic are sacred. And if you decide to connect your life with a Turk, you will also need to accept his homeland. With all the pros and cons, although there are obviously more of the latter.
Conservatism
Turks are principled in their passions. They are sensitive to change and innovation. This manifests itself in both business and personal life. It is very difficult to get a Turk to try a new suspicious dish, like sushi or herring under a fur coat. But for some reason, almost every second Turk loves borscht. If you want to win the heart of a Turkish man, learn how to cook borscht.
Emotionality
Many note that Turkish men, despite their courageous appearance, are quite vulnerable, sensitive, romantic, passionate and childishly touchy. A Turk is unlikely to object to watching a good melodrama. But their emotions can change as dramatically as the weather in the south in winter, and this can often take them by surprise. So a sunny hot day abruptly gives way to a cold wind and a night thunderstorm. Turks easily give compliments, confess their love, ask for marriage, promise stars and the moon from the sky, but just as quickly they can change their minds and disappear into oblivion.
Polygamy
Perhaps, deep down, every Turk, more than any other man, considers himself Sultan Suleiman and dreams of a harem. They can often be caught red-handed, both in real and virtual life. Turks, even married ones, are active users of dating sites and social networks, capable of working on two or even three “fronts”, without experiencing the slightest remorse. But God forbid if someone starts flirting with his chosen one.
Jealousy
Turkish men are often so jealous that they can forbid their girlfriend or wife to work, monitor the chastity of their clothes, control calls and correspondence, and do not allow them to go somewhere without him or return home late. But the phrase “Benim eşim türk” (“My husband is a Turk”) acts like a magic spell on pestering pick-up artists who want to meet each other.
Practicality
Rarely does a Turk understand without explanation why a girl needs to give flowers when there is already beauty all around. The exception is perhaps Valentine's Day (Sevgililer günü). And even then it may not be a stylish bouquet, but a houseplant. Turks are practical guys, so things that are useful in the household can also be given as a gift. But not a single Turk will allow a woman to pay for himself in a cafe or restaurant. It's a matter of honor.
Love for cleanliness
Despite popular stereotypes, Turks are particularly clean. Religion also leaves its mark. This can reach the point of disgust, and Turks will not eat in a cafe where there is dirt in the kitchen and on the tables. Perfect cleanliness should reign in a Turkish home. True, this responsibility falls mainly on the shoulders of the wife, the keeper of the hearth.
Football
Turks love football very much, and the division into fans of one club or another is quite strict. And if your Turkish partner is a fan of Besiktas, don’t even think about saying that you like Fenerbahce much more than the players in black and white stripes. Turks love to watch football with friends in a bar. They react to every goal with their usual emotionality.
Public opinion
Judgment from neighbors, friends, family, colleagues, passersby, accompanied by clicking of the tongue, shaking of the head, gossip and gossip is a phenomenon that Turks prefer to avoid. They try to maintain good relations with everyone, believing that “a bad peace is better than a good quarrel.” It is also not very common among Turks to openly show their feelings in public, so you can only see couples openly kissing in big cities or at the height of the season at resorts or nightclubs.
Turkish language
Many Turks easily speak various foreign languages, including Russian, but still their native Turkish language is closer to them, and for many Turkish words and expressions it is simply difficult to find analogues. So knowing Turkish is a big advantage in the eyes of a Turkish man.
Treat yourself or your loved one! In honor of Valentine's Day, Turkish language courses “Dialogue” are given away 14% discount on online course "Effective Turkish" ()!
You can forward the link to your Turkish boyfriend or husband - this will be a great hint for a practical gift. And you will improve your language, and you will please the Turkish man by declaring the seriousness of your intentions to finally learn his native language.
VOCABULARY:
Aşk (“ashk”) - love
Aile (“aile”) – family
Sevgililer günü (“Sevgeliler günü”) – Valentine’s Day
Eş (“ash”) – spouse
Temiz (“temiz”) – pure
Kıskançlık (“kyskanchlyk”) – jealousy
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